Hi, I'm Jeff
My story starts, I’d assume, like yours. I was a creative, problem-solving, expressive, emotionally intelligent, and deep-thinking kid – but one who felt misunderstood a lot of the time, so I learned to be a chameleon, suppress my thoughts and shut my emotions down, to not take risks. I felt alone in determining who I was as a man. I found myself going around in circles in the same unhelpful patterns, lacking any real substance in my relationships, overthinking and stuck in my head while feeling disconnected to my body, not really understanding myself, believing in myself or knowing what I even wanted.
I’ve found ‘success’ many times, but something was always missing
I compensated by trying to fix everything or prove my worth by giving up more of myself. By trying harder to please. Doing more. Escaping myself. No matter what I did, it resulted in patterns of chronic self-neglect, overworking, and over-achieving. This almost always led to burnout.
I was actually disconnected from my true nature.
I’m still a fixer and creative solution provider and I am also grounded, present, confident, sensual, and a deeply loving leader of men.
It was only when I went through my own coaching experience that I was able to identify these unhelpful patterns, unlock who I was, and make lasting changes that impacted every single area of my life.
I was actually disconnected from my true nature.
I’m still a fixer and creative solution provider and I am also grounded, present, confident, sensual, and a deeply loving leader of men.